Avoiding Stress On Your Wedding Day
After dreaming about it your whole life Mr perfect finally proposes, and with no question about it you of course say yes! You gleefully tell friends and family, you rush to set the date, life couldn’t be any better… then comes the wedding planning, a tad stressful – to say the least, all of the juggling of time and money, working your way through endless to do lists, ignoring interfering comments from friends and family and resisting the will to just ‘give in’ when your maid of honour announces that she will be nine months pregnant and about to pop on the date.
Miraculously you kept on track, you kept your sanity and the day is set to be perfect! But what’s that? The niggling anxiety that surely something will go wrong, something will be forgotten, broken – disaster will strike! Never fear, we have a few answers to the most common worries and problems a bride faces.
Lets be honest, the only problem that cant be fixed and would make the whole day fall to pieces is the ‘no- show’ of one of the leading roles, your self or your partner!
Your beloved, he will show! – Of course he will, relax, he did ask you after all, and he hasn’t bolted during the chaotic planning of the day when maybe once or twice bridezilla threw a tantrum or two. He’s in for the ride and cannot wait to make you his other half
*We definitely recommend that you put you foot down and not let his best mate whisk the stags off too near the wedding, a hung-over groom or a groom in another country would be what we consider a match to a flame.
Your bridesmaids – your best friends, and perhaps the cousin you’ve not seen since you were 5? They are your rocks, they are also your squat team, use them, keep them focused (and never more drunk than yourself), they can deal with any stresses on your behalf leaving you free to enjoy and experience your day.
* Give your most trusted bridesmaid an emergency kit to keep in their bag, a treasure trove of bits and pieces to combat any problems that arise; nail varnish to double combat chipped nails and ladders in stockings! Hairspray to keep your locks looking no less than model perfection, a little sewing kit to tackle any rips or tears, wipes to remove any stains, makeup for touch ups and perfume to keep you smelling fresh.
Good company – you have a great group of friends, family you cant choose, but hopefully they will be equally as fantastic, they are here to help you celebrate, so Surround yourself with them and avoid those who are likely to be negative, profit from all of the details that you put into place during your planning. Mingle, re-connect with relatives, enjoy being newly wed, laugh at the best mans speech, be your parents pride and joy, enjoy your meal, drink your bubbly, dance at your party and enjoy the simple fact that all of your hard work has paid off, the day was a success.
The after thoughts-
The day after can be a strange feeling – it’s all over, no more planning – what on earth will you do with your time? well actually its not over yet, first your honeymoon, then your present opening and thank-you cards, your name changing forms, wedding albums…
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